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Getting off the Island

June 9, 2011

If there is anything I’ve learned over the past few years in my journey of faith, it’s that knowing others and being known is absolutely essential as a follower of Christ.

Knowing others in the sense that I know what makes a person tick, their passions, hurts, habits, sin struggles, fears, joys, quirks, flaws, victories, achievements, and more.

Being known in the sense that those close to me know really know me- my insecurities, fears, sin struggles, passions, worries, victories, issues, dreams, and more. And they still accept, love, and spur me on without rejecting those weaknesses or rejecting me alltogether.

I’ve seen this lived out among my community group at church. My husband and I have done life with our group for four years now. The girls in our group- Julia, Jen, Ashley, and Ashley- have seen most of what there is to know about me. The good, bad, and ugly!

Over the years a trust has been built among us. Because authentic community is stressed so much at our church, we’ve been accountable to that and have lived by that standard even when it’s difficult. It’s been life-changing and life-giving for each of us.

John Donne penned the famous quote, “No man is an island.”

I know this, yet my pride often keeps me in isolation and from wanting to be fully known by others. I’d rather hide my weaknesses or do life on my own apart from anyone’s help. I’d prefer they not see any “yuckiness.” But God knows what happens when I’m left to deal with life by myself- it’s never good.

God created us to live in authentic community with other believers, where we are fully known and accepted. Yet where our friends won’t allow us to remain where we are.

We were created to step out of the shallow pool water and plunge into the depths of the ocean. There is no other way to do life.

Will you join me?

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2 Comments leave one →
  1. June 9, 2011 8:54 pm

    Samantha,
    It’s been too long since I’ve been here! Yes, being known and knowing others is vital to life. I’m coming out of a funk where I some alone time, but wow, I’ve missed my little community.

    Always enjoy your words, and I’m clicking over now to find out about “Ungrind”. Love discovering new things.

    Have a wonderful weekend.

  2. June 15, 2011 8:23 am

    I totally hear you. I think it’s great to “vacate” a bit from online community to be refreshed again, etc.

    Thank you for your encouragement Amy. I think we’d be really good friends in person- maybe one day we’ll meet!

    God Bless your week.

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